All Time Low: Lullabies Meaning
It could be for the last time and it's not right.
"Don't let yourself get in over your head", he said.
alone and far from home we'll find you...
Dead- like a candle you burned out;
spill the wax over the...
anonymous Apr 6th, 2009 4:25pm report
This song is about alex gaskarth's brother commiting suicide. (Alex is the lead singer of the band in case u didn't know) they were n a fight before so alex wrote this saying goodbye to his older brother. It contains actual lines from the suicide letter hence "don't let yourself get in over ur head,"he said... it's pretty obvious to tell from the song lyrics. it's an amazing song and atl is tight!!! After knowing the true meaning, the song is so much better
anonymous Feb 21st, 2:20am report
Tom Gaskarth died in his sleep when he was 21 and his half brother Alex Gaskarth, the lead singer of All Time Low, was 12. ALEX IS NOT YOUR "ONE TRUE LOVE" IF YOU DO NOT KNOW THIS STORY'S TRUTH AND YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE USING "LOL" IN THE INTERPRETATION. PLEASE. EDUCATE YOURSELF. that is the end of my rant. *tries to bow but trips awkwardly, bursts into flames and teleports to Warped Tour*
anonymous Feb 13th, 2:05pm report
Ok, first of all, his name was THOMAS GASKARTH, I don't know where everyone is getting Daniel, but... and he DID NOT commit suicide, as Alex has said himself. I'm going to interpret the whole situation as Tom getting annoyed because Alex seemingly got all the attention ("Scream to be heard, like you needed anymore attention"), which made Alex feel guilty ("I miss you,I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry") and Tom therefore developed an alchohol problem (throw the bottle, break the door, and disappear"). I guess finally he had enough and left the US (maybe that's what Alex means by "Alone, and far from home") because the US was Alex's home, and Tom then passed in his sleep. It;s clear the song is full of emotion, changing from mourning and sadness to anger at how it affected his family, and guilty because he felt like part of it was his fault, and that there might have been something more he could have done, to show that he didn't need to do anything to be heard, that he wasm't overlooked, or any less important. But I think the lyrics do a good enough job explaining his emotions. It just breaks my heart to think of all that Alex Gaskarth has gone through, but yet how strong he had to be to get through it.
anonymous May 11th, 2013 5:39pm report
You're all wrong. Alex admitted that tom never killed himself. He died in his sleep.
anonymous Apr 19th, 2013 4:20pm report
Lullabies isn't actually about Alex Gaskarth's brother committing suicide.. His half-brother, Tom actually died in his sleep.
"Tom Gaskarth was my brother. Tom Gaskarth did not commit suicide. Just like you all had his name wrong, you also have other facts wrong. Tom didn't take his own life, it just drifted away from him as he slept. I'm sure the majority of people don't mean to be hurtful and have just interpreted the lyrics wrongly, but it's not nice to see his memory being trashed all over the internet."- Alex Gaskarth
anonymous Feb 28th, 2013 2:19pm report
Umm you guys are stupid. it was not alex's fault. He was 12 and his brother TOM was 21. but yes this song is about Tom and yes it makes me cry.
anonymous Jan 13th, 2013 1:51am report
His brother was called Tom. Alex said that he DID NOT commit suicide. He died in his sleep.
anonymous Nov 19th, 2012 11:53pm report
HIS NAME WAS TOM. THEREFORE, ALEX HAS T.E.G. AND A ROSE TATTOOED ON HIS HAND.
Tom committed suicide at the age of 21, and Alex was 12. It was very hard on Alex and he wrote this song for Tom...
Rest In Peace Tom Gaskarth.
lullabylover66 Oct 20th, 2012 10:24pm report
This song is about alex's brother dying. They were very close and when alex was young his brother developed a serious alcohol problem. When his brother moved back to England his problem spiraled out of controll and he died. When alex found out he was distraught. Alex was 12 and his brother was 21.
It is the most beautiful song I have ever heard and Alex is the most amazing role model ever!
anonymous May 2nd, 2012 5:35am report
First off, his name wasn't Daniel. It was Thomas. Thom had a bad drinking problem. He did commit suicide and it killed Alex.
The song expresses two sides of what happens. The first side is the love and loss that he feels saying "ill miss you I'm so sorry."
The second is the anger he had because the whole family was effected by it.
anonymous Oct 27th, 2011 10:42am report
Lullabies is about Alex Gaskarth's brother, Tom (NOT Daniel) dying in his sleep. Apparently he and Alex had a fight before he died about Alex getting more attention, thus leaving Tom feeling deprived of deserved attention. This is probably why the lyrics read "I'm so sorry". Either this, or he feels it is his own fault.
Alex explained that his brother is in fact named Tom, not Daniel, and that he did die in his sleep. Not commit suicide.
Much love Alex <3
anonymous Aug 23rd, 2011 8:46am report
Alex's brother did not commit suicide. He died at home, in the house he shared with his friends, in his sleep. Not "alone and far from home"... I think he must mean far from the USA, which is Alex's home. Not his brother's.
Sounds to me like this song is as much about what happened when his brother left the USA and came to live back in England. Which was easily at least a year before he died.
You also need to allow for artistic licence and not take everything so literally.
anonymous Jul 22nd, 2011 7:42pm report
This is about Daniel Gaskarth (The singer's bro, in case you don't know). He committed suicide because he was an attention-seeker. Alex and Daniel fought and stuff, and one night Daniel became so mad and committed suicide. Alex never talks about it and you hardly ever hear it live (I don't think it's on Straight To DVD). They didn't say how he did it, just after a fight. But I'm thinking about "throw the bottle, break the doow, and dissappear", maybe he got drunk or something. And by "Scream, to be heard, like you needed any more attention" is like Alex's way of asking why he did it and saying that he was already loved and didn't have to resort to this.
I'm super sorry for Alex, R.I.P. Daniel Gaskarth.
anonymous Jul 12th, 2011 7:18am report
Its about alexs late brother daniel who committed suicide. Listen to the lyrics its pretty self explanatory. This song makes me cry so much. My condolences go out to alex and his family. Be strong alex we all love you!! <3 ATL <333
anonymous Apr 15th, 2011 4:55pm report
I think Alex Gaskarth's brother's name is Daniel. Not for sure, but that's what I've seen. So sad... and Yes, Lullabies is about his brother and how he caused the family so much pain by committing suicide and how he's so sorry. The chorus makes me cry.
"Sing me to sleep. I'll see you in my dreams.
Waiting to say, I miss you, I'm so sorry."
Not sure if those lines are supposed to be from Alex or Daniel because I think some of the lines from the actual suicide note are in Lullabies, but I'm pretty sure it's supposed to be Alex. I think Daniel was 16 when he died...anyone out there know for sure?
The emotion just pours out of Alex's voice when he sings that song. It's enough to break your heart and make you melt all at the same time....that man is the definition of talent! The entire band is excellent!! Freaking adorable, every single one of them!
ilovejaocbyshaddix Mar 8th, 2009 3:51pm report
Okay so here's the deal;
alex gaskarth(singer of all time low;; AND my one true love)'s brother committed suicide.
my guess is his brother left a suicide note and his death might have been partly alex's fault ::
"I miss you I'm so sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry!"
also, maybe a way of saying 'why did you do this to us!?' ::
"don't you see you shot this family a world of pain?"
this song might have the most powerful lyrics you'll ever come across.
you should rlly check it out.
rest in peace, alex gaskarth's bro (whatever yo name is lol)
my heart goes out to the gaskarth family
im so sorry :[
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