anonymous January 3rd, 2006 07:07PM  
I was watching an interview he did and he said it was about someone raping a guy in prison. It's sad. NONE I repeat NONE of the band members are gay. Just leave them to get on with their music, It's good music so what should it matter what it's about?!?!

anonymous January 7th, 2006 09:12PM  
He is not fucking gay! His girlfriend is Katmandu! (lucky) He is supposedly bisexual, but that's a rumour him and the band all pretend to be gay just for kicks lol.

anonymous January 10th, 2006 02:12PM  
I would like to say that gerard is not gay! He is an amazing guy and I love the band, their music is amazing!

DemolitionLover January 11th, 2006 02:22AM  
OMFG this is a song interpretation, not a call Gerard gay place. I am not an expert but this song is talking about prison rape and how other people treat them becuase there "weirdos" and that's it this song dosent say that gerard likes rape I agree with other people dosent madder if you like sex, it's still painful when its rape it screws up your mind!

anonymous January 28th, 2006 02:54AM  
Why wouold you care if he was gay or not, you should let people be the way they want to be and accept them for it.

anonymous January 28th, 2006 10:11PM  
Okay, so most of you kids out there are WRONG. Gerard has never been to prison, nor is he gay, nor is anyone in the band gay. Gerard has a girlfriend, and is getting engaged, Ray has a girlfriend, Frank is married, Mikey just proposed, and Bob is currently single. This is about the misfortunes of prison, in their words. As I said, no one in the band has actually been in prison, this is just their own interpretation.

I should know.

I met them.

And I talked to them about what each song means.

Thank you very much, skanks.

anonymous January 30th, 2006 06:24PM  
To jealousyellowstar, you are the biggest most insensitive freakin jackass! I don't care if you are gay straight or bi no one ever wants to get raped. It is a total invasion of privacy and causes peoply to go into depression, ruins self esteem, and just totaly skrews with you. To all of you who are fightin over wether gerard and the other band members are gay bi or straight, IT DOESN'T MATTER!! These are people who don't deserve to have every part of their lives analized by a bunch of people online. Their sexuality is their own buisness and they deserve the same privacy that we have. besides it shouldn't matter what their sexuality is if you like ther music. just listen to it and don't worry about their personal lives. I am a huge MCR fan and think the guys seem really nice and down to earth, and I love their music. I do know that gerard did have a lot of trouble with drugs and drinking a couple of years ago but as far as I know he is doin good now, but I don't think that has anything to do with the song.

2QT2BSTR8 February 15th, 2006 02:55PM  
Oh my God you guys are freakin idiots! Bert from The Used is NOT gay! He went out with a girl named Kate who died from an O.D.! They were friends, but that's it! Gerrad is not gay either!

anonymous February 16th, 2006 08:52PM  
Person above me......THANK YOU because all of these people can't seem to get it right.

anonymous February 23rd, 2006 11:34AM  
Just because you go out with a girl doesn't mean you're not gay- I'm not saying gerard is, but someone I know got married and had kids befre coming out. So going out with a girl doesn't really mean much at all.

LUCY February 26th, 2006 02:41PM  
This song is about Gerard way's experiance with homosexuality.

XHotelxBellaxMuerteX February 28th, 2006 06:04PM  
Oooo guys I just thought of something. What if Gerard actually gets on this site and tells us what the songs mean....but we don't know it?!! >< Mwa hahaha

anonymous March 7th, 2006 03:27PM  
Ugh... no one knows for sure the sexual orientation of Gerard... He's probably straight, I doubt he's gay, but he could be just trying to keep us guessing. It's probably fun for him.

Anyway... This song is undoubtedly about "being sodomized in prison", as Gerard once said... He also mentioned once that their band sings of rather taboo issues, such as "sex with men". it's not necessarily about rape, I don't think. Part of it might be, but the chorus is not. He sings,
"Now! But I can't, and I don't know
How we're just two men as god had made us"
The narrator's in prison with a friend (I'm guessing) and is confused about what's going on.
"Well I can't, well I can"
He's deciding whether or not to go through with what is being suggested...
"Too much, too late or just not enough of this"
Perhaps this addresses the whole sexual situation, I'm sure you can figure it out for yourself.
"Pain in my heart for your dying wish,
I'll kiss your lips again"
He doesn't necessarily want to do this, but he knows the two of them are having hard times in prison and is struggling with his own sexuality.

I think maybe a lot of their songs are supposed to be open for interpretation, everyone should have their own view. This has always been mine.

naturepants9 March 11th, 2006 03:21PM  
First off: Maybe Gerard is gay, maybe he's bi, maybe he's straight. Maybe the song is about prison rape or homosexualiy, maybe it's not. Maybe Gerard is straight but decided to write a song about some of the problems homosexual people encounter. At any rate, I think it's about the cruelties of the world and how they can render you completely insenstive and without any more real feelings, and how some people try to fight that. When someone sees a lot of pain and suffering and abuse, they tend to become hard and insensitive to their own feelings; that's the only way they can survive. The narrator in this song doesn't want to "lose himself." All the abuse he's enduring (whether it's prison rape, people being homophobic and bullying him because he's gay, some other hard times, or just the abusive/insensitive attitude in prison in general) makes him feel like the only way to survive is to become hardened to it all. He's trying his best not to lose his feelings and not to let himself be destroyed by abuse.

anonymous March 20th, 2006 10:28PM  
Okay maybe it has something to do with the story two lovers seperated by death in a GUNFIGHT the man is in hell then the devil says bring me the soles of a thousand evil men... I can imagine that there's a thousand evil men on fire a lot of MCR's songs have a story meaning and a real life one don't know what the real life one be, anywho I imagine there's at least a 500 evil men in a prison and then I think he blew it up (im about to string this muther****er on fire) FIRE!!!

anonymous March 25th, 2006 08:54PM  
This song is about prison rape and how gread is questioning his sexualitiy this is also about how Gerard kissed Bret Macracked in a truth or dare game.

starzits March 31st, 2006 08:35PM  
Ok first of all, we have all said "Gerard way is not gay.", so why are we still saying it? Gerard isn't gay, god damn....

plasticcup_politics April 2nd, 2006 11:52PM  
yes ok the person to post the first message is a bit dense as rape is rape and they wouldnt ever enjoy it but I think what they were trying to say is that if he were gay then he may have been open to the idea of sex with that person therefore it wouldnt be rape. I felt like defending them but then they suggested bert was gay with garard and that's just not ok!!!

plasticcup_politics April 3rd, 2006 12:04AM  
Okies my last post was only a short while ago but I actually didn't read every post before but now I have and wanna say other stuff. To the person above I'm sorry! I take back any thing about homosexuality as you yelled about everyone fixation on tyhe gay comment :D. I understand what everyone is saying to jealousyellowstar and why many of you a pissed but there is a chance they've just been misunderstood and I'm sure they don't actually think getting raped is fun by all means. Cut em some slack guys I think theyve been slagged off enough.

anonymous April 4th, 2006 11:58PM  
okay none of this song is about any of the band members being gay it is about how much of hatred gerard has for prison as the fact as there are so many prison rapes going on in there and he can't imangine how he could cope if he was in there..i think he would of wrote it as he was getting sober because like all mcr songs they mean heaps but this one for me,now people thinking that it's about mcr being gay or bi or what ever it isn't about that..take your time to read and understand what is going on before you leave your comment