What does Cold and Ugly mean?

Tool: Cold and Ugly Meaning

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Cold and Ugly Lyrics

Fade! Underneath her skin and jewelry, hidden in her words and eyes, is a wall that's cold and ugly and she's scared as hell. Trembling at the thought of feeling. Wide awake and keeping distance. Nothing seems to penetrate her 'cause she's scared...

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    anonymous
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    Sep 11th 2006 !⃝

    This song is about people hiding behind a mask
    because they are afraid they are not good enough
    and they might get hurt.

  2. anonymous
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    Mar 9th 2022 !⃝

    The wall is cold and ugly is a tepresentation of her self preservation from how she percieved life. On what she knows about how life's experiences makes you scared as presenting yourself your vulnerabilities your inner child to be ridiculed and eventually scoffed and discarded. She will not take that chance. She is incapable for many reasons of intimacy within any relationship so she hides behind the facade that life has left her with. This empty shell of a woman who can no longer give anymore . And it is sad, it is terribly sad. Its a self preservation mechanism that she has defaulted to within the life she only knows.

  3. anonymous
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    Mar 9th 2022 !⃝

    The wall is cold and ugly is a tepresentation of her self preservation from how she percieved life. On what she knows about how life's experiences makes you scared as presenting yourself your vulnerabilities your inner child to be ridiculed and eventually scoffed and discarded. She will mot take that chance. She is incapable for many reasons of intimacy within any relationship so she hides behind the facade that life has left her with. This empty shell of a woman who can no longer give anymore . And it is sad, it is terribly sad. Its a self preservation mechanism that she has defaulted to within the lie she only knows.

  4. anonymous
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    Nov 22nd 2014 !⃝

    I feel this song is about MJKs mother. A lot of tool songs seem to be focused on either his or her perspective.

    Fade! (his mother is slowly dying due to her illness aka fading away)

    Underneath her skin and jewelry, hidden in her words and eyes (his mother is paralyzed so the façade she puts on makes her seem fine but MJK can see through her words and eyes she's terrified of what's to come. She hides behind her faith which I believe is metaphorically symbolized by the skin and jewelry)

    Is a wall that's cold and ugly and shes scared as hell (she constantly has faith and hope that she will have a better life once she reaches heaven, but deep down there's a wall holding back all those negative emotions and MJK, being her son, can see she's scared as hell)

    trembling at the thought of feeling, nothing seems to penetrate her (shes afraid of feeling the negative emotions and none of those feelings seem to affect her as further realized through the song "The Patient")

    Wide awake and keeping distance from my soul(this could relate to both MJK and his mother. His mother is paralyzed, but she's conscious. She can talk and look but that's it. She cant live. She's trapped in her body but cant use it so she's kept away from her soul. OR due to lyrics in "Jimmy" this could relate to MJK as "Jimmy" speaks about MJK coming to terms with his mother and finding his lost soul that's 11 and making it apart of him once again)

    I am frightened too, I am scared like you (MJK is obviously just as scared as he believes his mother to be)

    I find it hard to believe this song could be about any girl other than his mother. Seems to odd for MJK to write a song about some random girl and about an obvious topic with no deep intention when the lyrics are so emotional. So I think this song has to be about his mother.

  5. swoonbaby
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    Jul 9th 2012 !⃝

    About A girl that doesnt express what is hidden deep down inside because its not a good place to be. he can relate to what she is feeling.. Cold and Ugly

  6. anonymous
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    Jun 9th 2011 !⃝

    I did two years of homeschool with my stepdad who was a christian pastor I always felt safe. When I was 12 he died of cancer, my mum took my little sister and left me behind with my father. Carefree, drinking, smoking, joking, father, unreligious stranger and potential threat. My religious views had me so paranoid that I put up a secret barrier to protect myself just in case he turned into the monster I imagined. My interpretation of cold and ugly is unwelcoming and insincere which is what I was. Hidden in her words and eyes (to avoid the voulneralblity of confessing emotional weakness, fear or asking for help from people I didn't trust, whenever I was afraid I would declair my hatered without much explanation). I was scared as hell but felt I couldn't tell anyone, I just wanted so badly not to feel emotion at all. Wide awake (alert) and keeping distance (either physically or mentally). Nobodies' words could penetrate my stubborn exterior cause I felt like they couldn't understand and I wore the Grudge like a crown. I feel comforted by the fact that some else is frightened too. I love my dad I now know how frightened he was of never being able to get through to me. I left christianity behind and felt a great weight lift off me and my fear dissipated. I love TOOL

  7. anonymous
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    Mar 22nd 2011 !⃝

    It's about how everybody is too insecure to be themselves, so they be the most desirable personality they know.

  8. schulza23
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    Jul 5th 2010 !⃝

    Thank u Zach! I originally thought this was either about maynards first time in the sack or about losing ur virginity in general. Considering this was their earlier work, i don't think it goes much deeper than that.

  9. ZACHLEERAUH
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    May 6th 2010 !⃝

    This song is simply about two people (boy and girl) losing their virginity, at least in the process.

  10. anonymous
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    Feb 5th 2010 !⃝

    Underneath her skin and jewelry,
    (Explaining all the looks)
    hidden in her words and eyes
    (hidden from everyone else)
    is a wall that's cold and ugly
    and she's scared as hell.
    (Explaining how she is afraid of being herself and is wearing a mask)

    Trembling at the thought of feeling.
    (hard for her to be herself)
    Wide awake and keeping distance.
    Nothing seems to penetrate her.
    Cuz she's scared as hell.
    (explaining how she is scared)

    I am frightened too.
    I am frightened.
    .......

  11. anonymous
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    Dec 9th 2009 !⃝

    This song is not telling a story. The woman described is an everyman, saying how we mask our true feelings.
    It's about the darker side of everyone's personality that they hide with false laughter and a fake smile.
    It COULD have something to do with drugs, as drugs DO make you feel desensitized to the world, and it sounds like Maynard is trying to help her, finding common ground with "I'm frightened too" and "I'm scared like you".

    She seems to be unable to reform from something bad.
    "Nothing seems to penetrate her/because she's scared as hell"
    Could be drugs, or maybe something else.

  12. Lucabarzini
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    Jul 3rd 2009 !⃝

    My interpretation was that this is about a woman/girl who is insecure and afraid to open up to this person and she's scared to get hurt so she lashes out and withdraws from the relationship between them and the person simply is scared to after seeing the insecurity between them.

  13. anonymous
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    Dec 29th 2008 !⃝

    It's about some girl that has some cold and ugly underneath her exterior of tangible and intangible. Like pretty much all dysfunction, it's a problem rooted in fear. In this song, the singer (maybe he's singing from another perspective again - I don't know) is coming from a place of love and connection. "I am frightened, too. I am scared like you." This woman refuses to connect - refuses to love or be loved. She's "wide awake and keeping distance from my soul". It's one of his simpler songs lyrically, but it's definitely a good collaboration between everyone in the band. The music gives all the emotional context for those lyrics that are otherwise pretty straightforward.

  14. anonymous
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    Aug 22nd 2007 !⃝

    This song is about my ex-girlfriend who is absolutely gorgeous on the outside but horrifically ugly on the inside, selfish, cruel and manipulative; in order to protect herself against the deep fear and loathing she lives every second of her life trying to maintain her control against her insecurity. Very sad.

  15. anonymous
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    Jul 5th 2007 !⃝

    I feel that this is a song about rape, written from the rapists point of view. the woman know that there is somebody watching her, but she tries to hide the fear, pretend she doesn't know that he is there. the rapist is frightened about what he's about to do- he has to separate his mind from his bodily urges (wide awake and keeping distance from my soul). Or at least, that's my take on it

    This interpretation has been marked as poor. view anyway
  16. anonymous
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    Sep 6th 2006 !⃝

    I agree with watergem´s interpretation, except for the one point that I think it´s not a psychiatrist but her boyfriend, a family member etc. Trying to help her.

    This interpretation has been marked as poor. view anyway
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