Demi Lovato: For the Love of a Daughter Meaning
Song Released: 2011
For the Love of a Daughter Lyrics
All I could hear was the family war
Your selfish hands always expecting more
Am I your child or just a charity award?
You have a hollowed out heart
But it's heavy in your chest
I try so hard to...
anonymous Jun 11th, 2014 6:54pm report
My dad left me when I was one week old. And now I'm 14. My mom never talks about him she is always quiet. My dad took my big brother with him when he was only 11 and I guess he raised him wrong because he was in jail. I have never met, seen, or talked to my dad before. My dad kept drinking and drinking he got in a car crash and lost both of his legs. Now he is in the crazy hospitol for men. Every night I cry in my sleep all because of this whole thing. :(
anonymous May 30th, 2014 5:35am report
Demi lovato role model. My parents got divorced, then my 18 mounth old brother died. And my own best friend told everyone my dad killed him. The only thing that got me through the day was putting on demi lovato music.
I dont care what people say to me demi lovato is my role model forever.
anonymous Sep 20th, 2011 9:01pm report
This song is a song about her childhood and her splochy relationship with her dad.
Her dad WAS an abusive alcoholic. she had to watch as he beat her mom and over-drank, as her parents fought, and as her family fell to bits.
She's never had a great relationship with her father, she's asking her father to think about all he's screwed up and all whom he's lost, begging him, even though it may be too late now, to rethink his actions and love her as his daughter yet again.
She's asking her father if simply loving his daughter is a good enough reason to give up his addiction to alcohol and cease his abusive actions!
AMAZING, TOUCHING, RELATABLE (FOR SOME) SONG!
anonymous Apr 14th, 4:51pm report
well my dad left when I was 4 years old and I'm 11 turning 12 in 2 weeks and I often consider suicide but I don't cuz I have a future and I presently had to go live with my dad for weeks cuz my mom beat me and I was miserable and I haven't seen/ talked to m father for 1 month I miss him so god damn much and I cry myself to sleep a lot so yea...
anonymous Apr 4th, 4:10pm report
My father would beat me till I was brusied because I was a girl and not a boy he didnt want me and beat up my mother too.
anonymous Feb 5th, 2020 2:56pm report
I have had the crappest life ever. This song litterally explains half of it. And don't know how to amit I've been hurt by someone who suppose to love me. But that isn't the scariest part of it. The fact I am so much like him scares me even more cause I don't want to hurt anyone I love. But I am strong, and I have been in MANY fights. So I'm what people call dangerous. But I never ment to loose control. I promised myself that I would never be like him, but when I get angry, the person I hurt looks at me the way I look at him. People have hurt me and I have hurt people. That is why my life is falling apart. And I'm only 12... I don't know why I started writing This down. Just seeing how everyone else has been through this as well, just made me want to share my story. Even if I am ashamed of it. I just want others to know, no matter what you are going through, you will find some one who knows what you are going through and you will help each other. Just keep going. There is hope. Even when your mind is telling you the only option is to end it. End your life... Don't cause if you do, you Will never find that one person who will help you. I have found mine, and even if they haven't been through what I have been through, they care about me and I care about them. We are the reason we are alive. We keep each other going. And everyone will find that someone, just wait. Trust me. Cause I have been there with you. Just know there are people out there who care about you. Even if you don't relise it. Thank you for reading my testimony.
anonymous Dec 18th, 2019 12:48pm report
My dad left me whenever I was three years old. I always prayed for my mom and father to get back together. But I'm just dreaming. I don't like seeing him. But I guess I have no choice.
anonymous Nov 5th, 2017 11:32am report
The song chronicles Lovato's relationship with her estranged birth father, who she rarely saw after her parents divorced when she was two years old. In the song, she pleads with her father to "put the bottle down" and questions him: "How could you push me out of your world, lie to your flesh and your blood, put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved?" Indicative in the lyrics "It's been five years since we've spoken last / And you can't take back what we never had"is distance that has added to the strained relationship with her father. An author from Sputnik music interpreted it as a song about her relationship with her alcoholic father who didn't seem to see her as a good enough reason to stop drinking and be there for her when she needed him.- FROM WIKIPEDIA
Harry Potter? Hello?!?! Whoa you are so happy and so excited, Congrats girl!
- Me? Having The Time Of My Life ( my name)
anonymous May 27th, 2017 5:06pm report
I can relate because my dad left and i cry and pray every night that he will love me again but i know that i am only chasing a fantasy that wont come true and im only 11.
anonymous Apr 29th, 2017 4:40pm report
When I was younger, my dad was a wonderful father. Or so I thought. Now, 14 years later, I have discovered that he was always a selfish manipulator who sexually abused my mom. My parents have recently gotten divorced, and It has been such a hard time for me. I have finally seen my dad's true side. He has become rude, and I have started to doubt his love for me ("even I love you sounds like a lie"). I am in so much pain and I hate him so much, but I still love him, and I wish he could have been how I thought he was.
anonymous Dec 18th, 2016 12:07am report
My father was also an alcoholic man.. he used to beat up my mom and me when i was a baby .. he didn't wanted me from the beginning so he tried to kill mom .. he also tried to sell me or to give me to someone ele ..
cuz we were poor and he still was drinking .. mom was the only one who had a job ..
well .. at last .. he lost us .. and just now he realise that he was a jerk .. and only when i was 12 he said that ,,yes is my daughter '' .. but it was too late .. i hate him so much for what he done to my mom and me .. but .. i still love him somehow .. i hate this feeling .. and he doesn't even call me .. since when i was 12 years old until now ehrn i'm almost 17 .. he was a just a ghost in our live's ... and even if it wasn't true .. i wanted to think that he loved me ..
now i have a step father and i love him and he have good care of us ...
and now here i am .. i'm singing thank's for my mom .. but just for fun even if i love to sing but i'm to shy to do it in public , i'm writing my own lyrics ...
so yeah .. i admire Demi ..
i want her to know that us.. the people who have those kind of problems we are together and ready to help each other .
anonymous May 23rd, 2016 5:42am report
I can relate to this song so much. My father abused my brother, mom and I. Both physically and emotionally but now hes gone but he still haunts me. He was so manipulative. He is an alcoholic and I asked him to stop for me and the rest of ny family but he said tgat is a cop out for my behaviour. Whatever that means. He doesn't realise that what he is doing is wrong and hes losing us. He would always come to our house for money and he sexually harrasses my mom. I hate him so much much but i love him too. I just want a normal father and yeah i relate to this song so much.
anonymous Mar 28th, 2016 3:28pm report
I was abused by my dad for over 7 years.I'm 15years old now. I was very young when it began..My mom,little sister and i..We have suffered a lot. My dad was an alcoholic. 2 months ago,he started drinking A LOT MORE THAN USUALLY. So,My mom decided that we are going to go to my grandmother's house for a weekend..We decided to be there a week..When we came home..When we opened the front door..There he was..He had died..He was 39 years..He looked very bad..Even though i hated my dad..I miss him.
anonymous Mar 18th, 2016 3:59am report
I honestly think this song is about an abusive father. I think he also sexually abused her because she says so young when the pain had begun and forever afraid of being loved. she cant trust another man because of what her father did to her. this song is extremely sad, I'm actually going to sing it at my schools talent show next year and every time I practice it tears spring to my eyes, because I can totally relate to it 100%. this song is a message to everyone stand up! to violence ,rape ,and alcoholic abusive fathers. your not alone.
anonymous Jan 3rd, 2016 1:03pm report
I am abused everyday of my life i have bruses all over me. My mon left me and my two brothers when i was only three. My two brothers where one and the other was only five months old. When i was four my dad started to drink. When i was fiv in a half he started to beet me. I am thirteen almost fourteen. Demi Lovato is the one that keeps me goin. She is why i am still hear. Every time after i get beat i turn Demi Lovato's music on. She is my role model. She will be my role model forever. Not only do i get beet but i get bullied at school. I cut my wrist's, arm's, thigh's, and hip's. Demi Lovato is my life savor!!This song is very sad and unfortunately I can relate to it. I have my dad but I don't. Although him and my mom are together their not. My dad prefers to go drinking with his friends than to be home here with his family. He doesn't consider us family. My parents are always fighting. I feel like he doesn't love us and most of the time drinks. He says he's working but I doubt that. I keep thinking that maybe he will change but then I realize I'm chasing a dream that will never happen
anonymous Nov 12th, 2015 11:19am report
I know how you all feel,when i was little i was the same way, i am 15 and still going through not being wanted by my parents and step-mom.
anonymous Aug 10th, 2015 8:08am report
I am abused everyday of my life i have bruses all over me. My mon left me and my two brothers when i was only three. My two brothers where one and the other was only five months old. When i was four my dad started to drink. When i was fiv in a half he started to beet me. I am thirteen almost fourteen. Demi Lovato is the one that keeps me goin. She is why i am still hear. Every time after i get beat i turn Demi Lovato's music on. She is my role model. She will be my role model forever. Not only do i get beet but i get bullied at school. I cut my wrist's, arm's, thigh's, and hip's. Demi Lovato is my life savor!! I L
anonymous Jul 3rd, 2015 7:31pm report
This song is very sad and unfortunately I can relate to it. I have my dad but I don't. Although him and my mom are together their not. My dad prefers to go drinking with his friends than to be home here with his family. He doesn't consider us family. My parents are always fighting. I feel like he doesn't love us and most of the time drinks. He says he's working but I doubt that. I keep thinking that maybe he will change but then I realize I'm chasing a dream that will never happen
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