Linkin Park: Leave Out All The Rest Meaning
Song Released: 2008
Leave Out All The Rest Lyrics
You were so scared
But no one would listen
Cause no one else cared
After my dreaming
I woke with this fear
What am I leaving
When I'm done here
So if you're asking me
I want you to know
CanoliChan Jan 20th, 2008 1:24pm report
Um.... I've always been reminded of my grandmother when I listen to this. She was really shallow, and was addicted to smoking and crap like that. I think she was even in prison once.
She died recently, and my family had to write a eulogy for her. We found ourselves struggling to find out what something good she could be remembered for.
Which corresponds with the lyrics:
'When my time comes, forget the wrongs that I've done, help me leave behind some... reasons to be missed. Don't resent me, and when you're feeling empty, keep me in your memory, leave out all the rest.'
In short, it's about a person that has done some really bad things, and wonders if they were to die, if anyone would miss them and/or remember them in a good way.
anonymous Aug 14th, 2008 8:21pm report
Tbh I don't think death comes into this song at all,
i think it's about someone whos had a tough relationship with someone,
but is still with them,
but its kinda hangin by a thread if you know what I mean,
and he feels there the only person that cares about him,
and he's asking when the end comes (not necessarily death although probably) to be remembered for good things,
to be kept alive by their memory,
to leave out all the wrongs
she/he is to hide that hurt as they always have done,
pretending that he can do it without her,
when he can't really,
but he has to pretend for her sake
he can't be as strong as her,
he can't be who she is,
shes stronger then him,
he wants her to share the burden
he acts like the strong one,
but really its her,
neither of them are perfect,
so when the relationship ends remember him for the good things,
and don't remember his weakness.
he can't help being weak
The song itself speaks of a sinful person who's trying to correct all of his mistakes and wanted to be remember as a good person before he dies.
but I find its music video " doesn't fit that much " or video is not a " straightforward " to the song. The director of the video, Mr.Hahn stated that its like their daily life in outer space and he thinks that it ties in to the song because their leaving their homes, love ones behind to do something better.
he does have a point but in additional, I think they also wanted to be remembered as " miracle workers " because they've done anything to achieve their goal.
if you guys have other opinions then let me know. :)
anonymous Aug 17th, 2018 8:20pm report
Im not quite sure but I miss chester & his music.....
anonymous Jul 15th, 2018 7:55am report
Why does it have to be about he doing bad. When you have had bad done to you .... you own it it makes you be someone you don't want to be even if you hide this pain and look so strong. This song is about when you just can't go on anymore with all the things you with everyday that no-one else sees. When you end don't remember me for my pain remember me for who I am. Everything else well... leave out all the rest.
anonymous Mar 13th, 2018 3:29pm report
I believe that Lost of Likin parks songs had to deal with Chester's Depression. I feel like lots of his songs were secretly telling us all that he wants to die. This song is one I really believe is about how Chester wants to kill himself. Likin Park is still my favorite band even though Chester pasted away. He will always be loved no matter what. If only we heard his scream for help before it was to late.
anonymous Dec 7th, 2017 12:03am report
My interpretation of the song is about my life, as far as I can remember as a child, I have been abused,emotionally,physically, mentally, and sexually, but I always forgave and always had empathy even to those who hurt me the most. I just kept loving whomever, trying to feel, and receive their love back.. Always being a people pleaser just to be accepted or loved by them. I have been time and time again been hurt or abandoned my the ones I loved and trusted the most. But always thought that the future held better for me as a . All I ever wanted was a normal loving family of my own. I thought that having my own children would be the unconditional love I had always serched for. But in fortunately in my desperate attempts I jumped in to relationships to fast and with the wrong men. See I was a open book and thought because I was so honest with who I was and wanted that everybody was like that, I wore my feeling on my sleeves. By time I found out the relationship was not or should I say the partner was not who I thought they were, I had already became pregnant, this happened for the most part six time six children with five fathers, I was pretty strong for the first four, but when I hit the age thirty years and fought with each father, two out of three of them, cared more about having to pay child support even though I told them that if I was working I did not want child support, I just wanted them to be good active fathers to their children, that it was more important for the kids to have that than to fight over money, they could not even manage that. The one u fell over heals for and had two of his children, was the one who crushed me the most, without getting into great details, he was the one who was the most deceitful, and alcohol was his true love, he was the most abusive, mentally, emotionally, and physically. In the midst of it all I who was totally against drugs, one night I went out with some what I thought were friends and got super drunk which I rarely ever did. Well the wrong friends, wrong time, emotionally that is I was introduced to cocaine, I was so intoxicated that I allowed myself to try it. Thinking that one time won't hurt me. Well guess what it did it took all the fears and years of pain andhurt and insecurities away from me and made me feel like I could do anything and made me feel like I was full of life again. As we all know that it doesn't ever last. It took my family and I into a horrible twister and the more I did the more shame and guilt held me down. Everytime I would get the strength to fight my family or my children's fathers would kick me in the teeth. All I wanted was to get back to the person and to the Mother I was before I made that fatel choice that night which I call my crossroads, I took the wrong turn. Anyway I tried to get my life back where it was before, I had three years, two years 7months and so on... My children where supporting in the beginning, then when my oldest started his teenage years. I used to overcompensate to my children and would give in and not be the mother I used was before my addiction. I was a strict mother but a loving mother and they knew that. But after my addiction I felt so much guilt and shame that I would overcompensate and from the oldest down to the youngest one by one they learned how to play and manipulate me knowing my emotions and ringing guilt. In the beginning everything I blamed on myself and my addiction. I would put myself down as a mother and as a person. But all I did by doing that was to teach my children not to have any respect for me. And by the time I started figuring it out. And started being the mother I was before my addiction. It had been too late for there was no respect there anymore. They all learn from the oldest all the way down to the youngest that I was weak and that I didn't deserve respect. By the time I started taking self-help classes and realizing that I should be valued and should have respect they were all too old and it wasn't there. So my biggest fear back to the song. Is that when I die I hope that they can forget all my bad and remember the good things about me and be able to find some value and way to respect me. That though I have made some wrong choices, and went down some wrong roads, that I was human and that nobody is perfect. That I tried to do the right things, but through it all, that there has not been a day, a minute or a second, we're I have not stopped thinking about them or loving them, a yearning for the day when they realize that and are able to fully forgive me and love, value, and respect me. Remember me for my good and leave out all the rest. I always told them that if my time comes, not to mourn me or be angry at me, to play the song "leave out all the rest" at my funeral and have a party for I will be at peace. But I wNt them to be able to let go of their resentments and only remember happy things of their memory of me, so they can move on and be happy. There is a saying that to hold unto resentment and anger towards a person is like taking poison to one self and expecting that person to die. I don't want that for my children. I want them to be able to forgive so they have a happy, loving, free from it all life. I want them to learn from my mistakes, so when they come to their crossroad in life, they take the better road. My only regrets in life is loosing the love, respect, of my children and my children having lost any value in or with me. Sincerely, A Mother's never ending Love...
anonymous Oct 2nd, 2017 10:13am report
Everyone wants to be remembered when they are gone and for Linkin Park fans, this song will touch them more since Chester is now gone.
anonymous Nov 18th, 2016 11:51am report
If I call you 'anonymous' I could be talking about half the population...so I'll just say, "The person who compared parts of their life with every line of the song". I've done this, and I'll do it again, right here, to show what the meaning of this song is to me.
"I dreamed I was missing
You were so scared
But no one would listen
'Cause no one else cared."
I feel like no one would care except for maybe my mom if I suddenly disappeared.
"After my dreaming
I woke with this fear
What am I leaving
When I'm done here?"
I know I'm not leaving very much behind if I die, excet for a bunch of junk that no one else would ever want. Really, the only thing of worth that I'm leaving behind is a memory.
I'm skipping the pre-chorus, "So if you're asking me, I want you to know" because it really doesn't mean very much.
"When my time comes
Forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some
Reasons to be missed.
Don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory
Leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest."
I've done bad things in my life, and I hold a very strong grudge against my dad that no one knows about but me. I'm only twelve. I plan to hold this in until I'm old enough to pull a "Hollyleaf" move: Let all this out, then disappear so I don't have to deal with the reactions of everyone. When I do tell everyone, though, I feel like they'll resent me, isolate me, alienate me. When I die, I want people to remember the good things.
"Don't be afraid
I've taken my beating
I've shared what I've made."
The 'beating' would be the emotional abuse that my dad rains down on everyone, especially me and my mom. And I share a lot of things I make, whether it's a drawing, a cat toy, some other craft, or a chunk of writing.
"I'm strong on the surface
Not all the way through
I've never been perfect
But neither have you."
This line...this one line has made me cry. I try to be strong emotionally, but it's mostly pretend. I have a weak heart when it comes to that. Although at my core, I must admit, I am cold. My desire for vengeance has frozen me from the inside. I am not perfect, and I never will be. I'm far from it.
"Forgetting all the hurt inside
You've learned to hide so well
Pretending someone else can come
And save me from myself
I can't be who you are."
No one remembers why I hurt so badly, and hate him so much--but then again, I've hidden it so well that no one has any choice but to forget after a while. As for the next line, I halfway want someone to save me from the corruption I've faced since that day, but a tiny part of me wants to hold onto it, probably so I'll never forget what happened. And I feel like people want me to be like them...
And you may have been wondering what I talk about when I say 'hurt' and why I hate my dad so much.
This is a very sensitive subject for me. But I will say it.
It was two years, four months, and six days ago, on July twelfth, 2014.
My dad forced my mom and sister to drop off a lot of our cats by a nearby creek and abandon them there. He threatened to shoot the cats otherwise, he'd done it before. One of those cats was mine. Her name was Sunset. She was a dilute tortoiseshell with golden eyes. Very thick fur. Young. Until then, I didn't realize how much I loved her. I'd always push her away and tell her to get out from in front of the screen. As if a computer is more important than a pet. In October of that year, I realized just how much I missed her. That was just the first of many days that I cried my heart out because of her. We've looked. We've put up posters. She is nowhere to be found. After these years, it's hard to believe that there's any chance she would be alive. But the stubborn, hopeful part of me refuses to believe that she's gone forever.
And that's not the only reason I hate him so much.
Go to yourworldoftext.com/dad if you really want to read about it. It's far from a happy story.
anonymous Jul 3rd, 2012 7:31am report
I feel that this song is about someone who had a great life growing up but by the time he/she got older they fell into the grasp of addiction. Once this happens it changes a person. I am one of these people. I was someone who always did the right thing... Always helping people. Once addiction hit my personality changed, I started stealing from my family and it hurt them badly. I have since broken free from its grasps and am now the person I used to be but the damage is done. I truely hope I am rembered for the good I've done and not the addictive a-hole I for a short time was. No matter how hard my loved ones tried, they could not save me from myself, and I knew it was hurting them! The song fit perfect with my thinking, so this is just my opinion. I have read all of yours and the best part is, it can apply to everyone's situations!!
anonymous Jun 21st, 2012 6:56pm report
In my opinion when I hear this song, I think of those who have went off into war at a young age. They are searching for who they are, but they left someone important behind and they're trying to leave an impression and make the best of their life while they can....well I see it that way anyways
anonymous Mar 3rd, 2012 3:01am report
this song actually has two meaning to it 1.)just breaking up with someone and he's trying to remember all the good moments that they had together and forget all the bad ones thus "leave out the rest" 2.) the vocalist is saying that his life has been horrible and when he dies he wants people to remember him by all the good he did which will give them a reason to miss him and forget all the bad things he's done in his past 'When my time comes, forget the wrongs that I've done, help me leave behind some... reasons to be missed. Don't resent me, and when you're feeling empty, keep me in your memory, leave out all the rest.'
ojaswinidoshi Feb 28th, 2012 2:59pm report
Gues it might be about after break ups also but the literal meaning matches more with death. may it be after a break up or death he wants her to remember him. this is a really good song and as said a rare combination of extremely good lyrics and equally good music.
anonymous Jan 25th, 2012 1:02pm report
death and being forgotten.
anonymous Nov 29th, 2011 11:35am report
A person did terrible terrible things in his life but he wants people to remember him in a good way
Or, it could be sang in a graduation ceremony. In graduation, you want to leave good memories to your friends, but you leave them, possibly forever
anonymous Nov 13th, 2011 11:36pm report
i think this song is about suicide. "i dreamed i was missing and you were so scared but no one would listen cuz no one else cared" this is like the premeditation of suicide. The aftermath of it the way you hope people remember you isn't by the fact you have committed suicide but rather the other deeds you have done in your life. "im strong on the surface not all the way through" "so when my time comes forget the wrong that ive done help me leave behind some reasons to be missed dont resent me and keep me in your memories leave out all the rest." i dont know just how in the song he can never measure up to be good enough for the people around him.
All the hurt inside
You've learned to hide so well
Someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you are"
anonymous Sep 18th, 2011 9:50pm report
That somg struck a cord for me when I first heard it . I want it played at me wake. I don't really know what it means to anybody else, but to me it means this.
I've been a problem child (that's what they called me) all my life. I was the youngest of 4 kids so I was spoiled. Got pretty much what I wasnted and got things the other didn't. At a very young age I got diabetes and all the health problen that go with it. Lose of some eyesight,heart attract at a young age, kidney failure, and a lot of little things thrown in between. Put a burden on my sibling
I dreamed I was missing you were so scared, no-one else listen no one else cared.
I believe my siblings do care. but since my parents died sometimes I feel like no one else does care.
After my dreaming I woke with a fear what am I leaving, when I am done here.
I have a son, he went to live with nis father when he was young. His father just had a baby and he wanted to grow up with a brother, he was an only child, so I had a fear of leaving him. How would my ex raise him? He turned out very well. He said I had taught him right and wrong and the golden rule. Treat other like you would want them to treat you. So I had a fear of leaving him. How would my ex would raising him. I live able a mile from him so he's close enough for me to be there.
When my time comes forget the wrong that I've done Help me leave behind some reason to be missed.
I was not a saint growing up. I did a lot of rebelling. So I hope people would forgive me. Let me feel I had a reason to be missed.
Don't resent me, when your feeling empty. Keep me in your memory leave out all the rest.
My siblings resent me for being spoiled, I know cuz we've talked about it. I still want to be kept in some momoris, Just not the bad one. Leave out all the rest.
Don't be afraid, I've taken my beating, I've shared what I've made. I'm strong on the surface, not all the was through. I've never been perfect, but neither have you.
My beating is having to deal being with my life with all my health problems, being spoiled and having my sibling resent me. I'm strong on the surface for my parents and to not keep being a burden on my family. But in reality I'm scared to death. And my siblings are any thing but perfect.
Forget all the hurt, that you've learned so well. Pretending someone else will come and save me from myself. I can't be who you are.
I know it hurt them to see me get things that they didn't get, They were hoping some day I would try and help myself. To stop feeling sorry for myself. I'm trying.
I swear this song fits me to a tee. Everyone hears this song differently than everybody else. This is what I hear.
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