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Pity Party Lyrics

Did my invitations disappear
Why'd I put my heart on every cursive letter?
Tell me why the hell no one is here
Tell me what to do to make it all feel better
Maybe it's a cruel joke on me
Whatever, whatever
Just means there's way more cake...


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    Jun 30th, 2016 6:07pm report

    Pity Party is about not just throwing a party and no one shows up, but because this is about Crybaby, if you listen to the first song in the Crybaby album, there's one part that kind of refers to Pity Party: "You're all on your own and you lost all your friends". And then you go back to Pity Party, you see her all alone at her house, throwing herself the biggest dang Pity Party in the world because nobody showed up. Even her closest friends and the boy of her dreams.


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    May 9th, 2018 5:21pm report

    Oh i get it, she was lonely, she just wanted some friends, because why would anyone hate and ignore a miserable person? That’s just pretty mean, I would team up with her, if I was a new character myself. If you guys won’t clean your dirty actions together, figure it out by yourself, your problem, not anyone’s. Just because someone is lonely, doesn’t mean they’re miserable, doesn’t mean that they are ugly, and it doesn’t mean that they’re “childish” that’s insane!


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    Jun 6th, 2016 6:24am report

    I think she's a miserable person who wants company... The birthday party is a metaphor for something fun so in the video she's not just crying... A pity party is when you're really sad... She obviously wanted someone to join her loneliness so she invited them... Nobody wanted to share in the sadness so she destroyed everything in a temper tantrum


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    Jun 30th, 15:01 report

    Crybaby throws a birthday party for herself, but when her friends and her crush don’t show up, she turns it into a pity party.


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    Jun 28th, 6:01am report

    She is a girl who sounds like she goes to high school or college but acts childish invites everyone to come but nobody does because they think she is to childish


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    Apr 6th, 4:46pm report

    Cry baby invited her friends and even her crush but no one came to her party and was lonely and sad so she destroyed everything and saying "I'm laughing,I'm crying it feels like I'm dying" and she kept repeating it she's sad and lonely and no one showed up to her pity party so she destroyed everything and it made her feel sad that she tried her best to decorate and make everything perfect but no one showed up


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    Feb 22nd, 2:29pm report

    Crybaby invites everyone to her party, but no one shows up. She wonders why this is, and wonders why she spent so much time making everything perfect. She's so sad that she destroys everything and smashes her cake to pieces. She feels trapped in a cursed world, and doesn't want anyone to tell her to stop crying. 'Candles' and 'Flames' are metaphors that Crybaby want's to burn her sadness away, but at the same time just wants to cry. She's so lonely she's going insane; she feels like she's dying. The whole song is saying that no one showing up to Crybaby's party was the last straw, and loneliness has taken over her; she honestly doesn't care anymore.


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    Dec 14th, 2019 12:17pm report

    Crybaby threw a party and invited all her friends to come. But nobody showed up. And she was feeling sad because she was all alone.

    She calls it her "Pity Party" because it's pity that she's all alone and crying cause of it. She set up all these things for everybody yet still nobody came.

    It seems like Crybaby throws a huge fit. She started laughing and crying because she was so upset. And she wants to cry till she stops.


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    Nov 25th, 2019 11:54pm report

    I think Crybaby is upset because no one showed up to her party. She's all alone and she lost her. So she's crying cause she's alone.


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    Nov 16th, 2019 11:14pm report

    I think the song represents not just a party. It represents life in general. Feeling alone. Crybaby might have friends, but maybe she tried to share her feelings with them and they didn’t care about her being sad or upset. She feels unimportant and alone because no one seems to care. This caused her to lose her friends. My evidence is the song “Crybaby”. This is her trying to cope with the fact that she lost all of her friends.


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    Oct 28th, 2018 10:57pm report

    This is what I call not know in who u are and be sad and depressed because no one understands you I love Melanie s sings because there is no one that understand s me basically everything thing is fake and this is how she is

    This interpretation has been marked as poor. view anyway


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    Nov 20th, 2017 11:08pm report

    It's about people we consider as friends but when we need them they dissapear. She invited her "friends" but nobody came...


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    Sep 15th, 2017 9:52am report

    Melanie "Crybaby" threw a party and she invited her boyfriend johnny and some friends....nobody showed up-_- this song is expressing her going crazy because nobody showed up to her party! I would go crazy too!


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    Aug 21st, 2017 8:04pm report

    This isn't a review on this one song, but as it is the most popular I decided to do it here NO HATE PLZ.

    Basically if u look on the cry baby album they are all in an order. It's telling cry baby's life story! Listen to it in the order and u will get what I mean xxx


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    May 19th, 2017 5:15pm report

    So CryBaby gives invites to her birthday party but no one comes. So she cries as seen in lyrics " Ill cry till the candles burn down this place" so clearly she is sad that know one cares but she thinks that they are pulling a prank on her. So Im guessing that now she is trying to make new friends and i new guy to fall in love with.


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    Oct 16th, 2016 10:08pm report

    She talks about ow when she was little no one showed up to her parties, and she talks about how she thinks that they probably were playing pranks on her, or didn't like her.


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    Jul 3rd, 2016 7:20am report

    I feel it is about her party not going great. But... More than that... She now feels as though she cannot trust anyone because no body showed up to her party she had high hopes for. She feels like she has no social status anymore.


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    Jun 20th, 2016 6:12pm report

    Pity Party is about Melanie's 3rd birthday patry. She wanted Barney the dinosaur to come, but the costume was (and I quote) "sketchy and didn't look professional". Melanie ended up crying for the whole day.

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