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Pacify Her Lyrics

Pacify her
She's getting on my nerves
You don't love her
Stop lying with those words

I can't stand her whining
Where's her binky now?
And loving her seems tiring
So boy, just love me, down, down, down


    #1 top rated interpretation:
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    Mar 18th 2017 report

    If you REALLY want know the meaning behind this song think about real life. For example near the ending of the song the "basic bitch" shows her boobs to "tired blue boy" and he takes her. This basically means Melanie had some sort of love triangle. She wants the boy to realize that he should take her instead of a slut that doesn't want him she just wants sex. Melanie wants him to happy with a girl who ACTUALLY loves him. Her.


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    May 24th 2018 report

    I think Blue boy is Melanie's childhood friend, and want's to become more closer to him more than just friends. But when she sees Basic bitch, She wanted to take bluey away from her because Melanie knows what he actually wants! But at the end Mel was sad basic bitch did a spell on him by showing him her boobs.


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    Jun 23rd 2019 report

    I think that crybaby is in love with the blue boy and so is the blue boy but he is somehow always hanging out with the blonde bitch although the blue boy doesn't love her . The blonde is so obsessed with him that she doesn't allow him to hangout with anyone other than herself . but crybaby is in love with him and wants to hangout with him . So when the basic bitch leaves finally the blue boy gets and time with crybaby and at a point they both fall madly in love and trues to kiss . The blonde bitch sees this amazing chemistry between both of them and quickly takes control of the boy by flashing her boobies at the end. This is the ultimate meaning of the song . But can we just take a moment and see that the blue boy was such a dick he loves this crybaby and knows that they will have a perfect life but still chooses that slut coz she showed her boobies . Seems like crybaby wouldnot do that coz she knows how to respect herself but the boy wanted to take that slut coz she flashed her boobs ... I like the song but I feel like the boy is suck a bad character here he made the wrong decision

  4. anonymous
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    Nov 26th report

    I think the song depicts a toxic desperation for love. It is shown at the beginning of the video that BB and Blue Boy are romantically involved with one another to some degree (the hand holding). Despite Crybaby's cognizance to this relationship, she actively pursues her own romantic interests towards Blue Boy even when she knows he isn't available, neither physically nor emotionally. Given the other songs on the "Crybaby" album, she doesn't come from a stable household where she has been given a healthy representation of what love should look like; hence her fruitless attempts at trying to get Blue Boy. The toxic outcome of Crybaby's love style isn't just shown through her own toxicity, but also through Blue Boy's when he starts leaving BB for Crybaby, and is only lured back to his initial lover when she reveals her breasts to him (a symbol of sexual offers). The overall theme of the song isn't about who's the homewrecker or who stole Blue Boy from who, but rather, it's about someone with a lack of love making desperate attempts to obtain love, even if it means trying to get it in toxic ways and/or even going after toxic people just for the reassurance of having what they think is "love."

  5. anonymous
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    Nov 9th report

    Tired blue boy was forced by basic bitch to hold her hand [not his choice) Melanie knew she was a slut so she asked him if he could play meaning sex with her this being ripped by bb makes her mad and she begins to rip toy heads of the bodies making bb uncomfortable finally removing hers bb leaves and blue boy and Melanie find the time to “play” and bb seeing this flashes her stuff tellin* him she wants sex and u know boys he gradually runs away with her

  6. anonymous
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    Nov 9th report

    I feel this song is about Crybaby being in some kind of love triangle. The blonde girl (or basic bitch) is with blue boy who is crybaby's crush at the moment. The blonde girl is always trying to separate the two because she knows that they like each other and blue boy actually likes crybaby and not her. The blonde girl is using her body to keep blue boy with her and blue boy is falling into that trap. Blue boy knows that he likes crybaby, but is going for the blonde girl because of her body. I also think blue boy is blind to his love for crybaby because he's more interested in the blonde girls body. This fact makes crybaby mad because she knows she can give him a real relationship. My theory is based around the lyrics-
    "Someone told me stay away from things that aren't yours. But was it yours if he wanted me so bad?"
    I'm really bad at explaining things but that's my interpretation of the song.

  7. anonymous
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    Nov 2nd report

    so my interpretation was blue boy is annoyed with his girlfriend that the song calls basic bleep and ask crybaby to help him prank basic bleep by making her use a pacifyer so yeah.....

  8. anonymous
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    Sep 11th report

    pacify her is about a girl that has deluded herself into thinking a boy she likes wants to be with her instead of his current girlfriend. she keeps trying to convince him that he loves her and not his gf, but he doesnt want to break up with her because he is content, hence the lines ”you don’t love her / stop lying with those words” and his act of choosing his gf over crybaby in the end. it is likely that he is not actually tired of her and its all in crybaby’s head.

  9. anonymous
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    Sep 1st report

    I think this song is about an argument with two lovers about cheating. The male lover just wants the female to be quiet, that's where the; "Pacify her, she's getting on my nerves!" and the; "Where's her binky now?" parts come into place. The pacifier and the binky isn't meant to be literal, it's metaphorical for wanting something that'll make the female go quiet, similar to how pacifiers make babies go quiet when they cry, wanting to suckle that. That's also, most likely, why in the video, the girl in blue places a piece of torn paper in her mouth/tongue, a sarcastic tone of what the male wants. The part where she tears the dolls' heads, is a similarity to how toddler's throw tantrums whenever they want something, it's how the male sees the female. The part with her head is most likely a literal version of the "blasting her head off" metaphor, she's shouting so much she blasts her head off.

  10. anonymous
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    Jan 3rd 2021 report

    why everyone keep saying is the basic girl fault??? basic bitch slut, basic bitch steal, basic........etc. in the video and lyric is clearly basic bitch is the one who is in relationship with the blue boy. Not crybaby.

    Tired, blue boy walks my way
    Holding a girls hand
    (blue boy is holding basic bitch hand, they are couple!)
    That basic bitch leaves finally
    Now I can take her man
    (crybaby is the 3 person, and she is in love with Blue boy, she want steal basic bitch men)

    Someone told me stay away from things that aren't yours
    (crybaby friend, or someone she told this about, tell her to stop, basic bitch is blueboy girlfriend)
    But was he yours, if he wanted me so bad?
    (crybaby think blue boy love her, even blue boy have girlfriend, she don't care. and she think blue boy don't love basic bitch)

    Pacify her
    She's getting on my nerves You don't love her
    (basic bitch know something is going on between crybaby and blue boy, so basic bitch piss off of crybaby)
    Stop lying with those words
    (crybaby think blue boy should stop saying love her to basic bitch, because crybaby think blue boy love her, not basic bitch)

    I can't stand her whining
    Where's her binky now?
    And loving her seems tiring
    So boy, just love me, down, down, down
    (crybaby is angry and piss off of basic bitch, because she have blue boy as boyfriend. crybaby think basic bitch is control freak, blue boy should love her)

    close to the video blue boy is start to walk toward crybaby (they are cheating, on basic bitch, not the other way around people)
    than basic bitch saw this, and showing blue boy her boob (is like saying, basic bitch is saying yes to have sex with blue boy, before they never have sex)
    the blue boy saw basic bitch boob and walk away with her......
    and crybaby is crying, because blue boy don't want her anymore.

    well, is very clear, blue boy is not hers in the first place. otherwise at the beginning of the video should show crybaby and blue boy play together. but no, blue boy walk in with basic bitch meaning THEY are together!
    CRYbaby is the third person and want STEAL other girl man!

  11. anonymous
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    Oct 22nd 2020 report

    Pacify her is instead of Crybaby getting the boy she wants to get rid of the girl. So she writes a note to blue boy if he wants to play with her but when basic b saw the note she rips it and throw the pieces at Crybaby. Crybaby then takes off the heads from her dolls to make basic b uncomfortable then she took off her own head. Blue boy and Crybaby crawls to each but basic b got in the way to show blue boy her breasts and leaves with him.

  12. anonymous
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    Apr 6th 2020 report

    I think that cry baby loves this "tired blue boy" but instead he chooses "the basic bitch" over cry baby and that made cry baby sad because "the basic bitch" didn't really love "the tired blue boy" and cry baby knew and cry baby wanted "the tired blue boy" to fall for her so she can really make him happy but instead "the basic bitch" ended up winning him over at the end and that made cry baby sad

  13. anonymous
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    Feb 23rd 2020 report

    Crybaby sees Blue Boy with Basic B**** and notices how tired he is with her. Crybaby and Basic B****
    compete over him, and Crybaby is disappointed when Basic B**** wins him over, as she was sure he would choose her. Crybaby holds a grudge against Basic B****, thinking that she's annoying and whiny. This talks about a love triangle that Crybaby was in.

  14. anonymous
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    Dec 14th 2019 report

    Crybaby seems to be jealous of a girl who's dating a guy she loves. The girl mistreats the guy and is a big complainer.

    Crybaby also seems to be watching the guy a lot. By the phrase "Tired blue boy walks my way, holding a girl's hand" which means the guy is tired of his girlfriend and she forces him to hold her hand. The guy actually loves Crybaby though and not his girlfriend.

    The phrase, "Pacify Her" is probably Crybaby telling the guy to break up with his girlfriend and to shut her up.

  15. anonymous
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    Nov 29th 2019 report

    Pacify her is singing a boy Crybaby falls in love with but he has a girlfriend and she's tiring the boy. So Crybaby tells the boy that they should break up by saying, "Pacify her".

  16. anonymous
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    Feb 10th 2019 report

    PACIFY HER is sooooo cleeeeaaaaar assss a sky!!!
    Seems the blue boy is mad with his ex-gf! Go ahead and be with your slut! Who cares anyway. That's your life !

  17. anonymous
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    Feb 10th 2019 report

    Don't be selfish? tell this to your ex-gf! go ahead and be with your slut! who cares hahaha.

  18. anonymous
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    Feb 10th 2019 report

    Long story short, blue boy was the boy that the slut liked then blue boy’s gf was angry and sad so blue boy cheated on his gf with the slut. The chorus is the words of the slut and the gf. slut was tired from the girls whining and crying, at the end slut ends up with blue boy. So slut separated them by being pretty and sexual so she would look better in the view of blue boy. So blue boy fell for slut, girl found out he was cheating and hanging out with slut. Slut said ‘but was he yours if he wanted me so bad?’ Then at the blue boy ended with slut. The meaning is DON’T BE SELFISH

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