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Pacify Her Lyrics

Pacify her
She's getting on my nerves
You don't love her
Stop lying with those words

I can't stand her whining
Where's her binky now?
And loving her seems tiring
So boy, just love me, down, down, down


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    Mar 18th, 2017 3:38pm report

    If you REALLY want know the meaning behind this song think about real life. For example near the ending of the song the "basic bitch" shows her boobs to "tired blue boy" and he takes her. This basically means Melanie had some sort of love triangle. She wants the boy to realize that he should take her instead of a slut that doesn't want him she just wants sex. Melanie wants him to happy with a girl who ACTUALLY loves him. Her.


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    May 24th, 2018 5:53pm report

    I think Blue boy is Melanie's childhood friend, and want's to become more closer to him more than just friends. But when she sees Basic bitch, She wanted to take bluey away from her because Melanie knows what he actually wants! But at the end Mel was sad basic bitch did a spell on him by showing him her boobs.


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    Mar 4th, 2017 3:23pm report

    Basically,Cry Baby sees "a tired blue boy" who is essentially getting choked with love and affection his girlfriend is giving him,she sees that her love is making him waaaaay too tired so she decides to give him her take on what true love should actually be-plain,unscattered love. Also,she loved him since (possibly) her childhood and that love persisted into adulthood (since Cry Baby obviously grew up and became sort of a man-eater persona,maybe it's a case of an MPD (multiple personality disorder) coming from kinda messed up family) and now she decided to finally become her own self and obide by her lyrics "But was he yours if he wanted me so bad".
    Kinda like reclaiming what was once her own but slipped away.
    At least that's my take on these lyrics.


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    Oct 22nd, 10:50am report

    Pacify her is instead of Crybaby getting the boy she wants to get rid of the girl. So she writes a note to blue boy if he wants to play with her but when basic b saw the note she rips it and throw the pieces at Crybaby. Crybaby then takes off the heads from her dolls to make basic b uncomfortable then she took off her own head. Blue boy and Crybaby crawls to each but basic b got in the way to show blue boy her breasts and leaves with him.


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    Apr 6th, 2020 4:55pm report

    I think that cry baby loves this "tired blue boy" but instead he chooses "the basic bitch" over cry baby and that made cry baby sad because "the basic bitch" didn't really love "the tired blue boy" and cry baby knew and cry baby wanted "the tired blue boy" to fall for her so she can really make him happy but instead "the basic bitch" ended up winning him over at the end and that made cry baby sad


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    Feb 23rd, 2020 2:22pm report

    Crybaby sees Blue Boy with Basic B**** and notices how tired he is with her. Crybaby and Basic B****
    compete over him, and Crybaby is disappointed when Basic B**** wins him over, as she was sure he would choose her. Crybaby holds a grudge against Basic B****, thinking that she's annoying and whiny. This talks about a love triangle that Crybaby was in.


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    Dec 14th, 2019 12:50pm report

    Crybaby seems to be jealous of a girl who's dating a guy she loves. The girl mistreats the guy and is a big complainer.

    Crybaby also seems to be watching the guy a lot. By the phrase "Tired blue boy walks my way, holding a girl's hand" which means the guy is tired of his girlfriend and she forces him to hold her hand. The guy actually loves Crybaby though and not his girlfriend.

    The phrase, "Pacify Her" is probably Crybaby telling the guy to break up with his girlfriend and to shut her up.


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    Nov 29th, 2019 11:08am report

    Pacify her is singing a boy Crybaby falls in love with but he has a girlfriend and she's tiring the boy. So Crybaby tells the boy that they should break up by saying, "Pacify her".


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    Jun 23rd, 2019 6:28am report

    I think that crybaby is in love with the blue boy and so is the blue boy but he is somehow always hanging out with the blonde bitch although the blue boy doesn't love her . The blonde is so obsessed with him that she doesn't allow him to hangout with anyone other than herself . but crybaby is in love with him and wants to hangout with him . So when the basic bitch leaves finally the blue boy gets and time with crybaby and at a point they both fall madly in love and trues to kiss . The blonde bitch sees this amazing chemistry between both of them and quickly takes control of the boy by flashing her boobies at the end. This is the ultimate meaning of the song . But can we just take a moment and see that the blue boy was such a dick he loves this crybaby and knows that they will have a perfect life but still chooses that slut coz she showed her boobies . Seems like crybaby wouldnot do that coz she knows how to respect herself but the boy wanted to take that slut coz she flashed her boobs ... I like the song but I feel like the boy is suck a bad character here he made the wrong decision


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    Feb 10th, 2019 2:29pm report

    PACIFY HER is sooooo cleeeeaaaaar assss a sky!!!
    Seems the blue boy is mad with his ex-gf! Go ahead and be with your slut! Who cares anyway. That's your life !


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    Feb 10th, 2019 2:27pm report

    Don't be selfish? tell this to your ex-gf! go ahead and be with your slut! who cares hahaha.


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    Feb 10th, 2019 2:33am report

    Long story short, blue boy was the boy that the slut liked then blue boy’s gf was angry and sad so blue boy cheated on his gf with the slut. The chorus is the words of the slut and the gf. slut was tired from the girls whining and crying, at the end slut ends up with blue boy. So slut separated them by being pretty and sexual so she would look better in the view of blue boy. So blue boy fell for slut, girl found out he was cheating and hanging out with slut. Slut said ‘but was he yours if he wanted me so bad?’ Then at the blue boy ended with slut. The meaning is DON’T BE SELFISH


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    Dec 18th, 2018 12:43pm report

    This very straight to the point. The song is about Crybaby, which she is in love with the Blue Boy. There's a girl (Basic Bitch) that's in love with him as well. Crybaby hates her so much where she drives to the point where she wants to keep the boy all to herself. (Crybaby thinks that she is very annoying.) She wants her out of her life. She wants the boy to pay more attention to her, to the point where she wants to shut her up, or, 'Pacify Her' At the end of the video , the Basic Bitch flashes her boobs to make the Blue Boy love her even more. In the end, Crybaby doesn't get the boy.


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    Oct 21st, 2018 10:36pm report

    Pacify her is about 2 girls fighting over “blue boy.” And Cry baby, addresses him as blue boy because she thinks the represents his emotion. I the song, she says: “Loving her seems tiring” meaning she thinks they would be better together.


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    Jun 28th, 2018 6:28pm report

    you can also look deeper and really see that maybe Melanie is unconfident and doesn't have the streath tell people what she wants. she longs for a friend who can stay with her forever.


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    Jan 17th, 2018 1:53pm report

    Cry baby is in love with the blue boy. and there is this blonde bitch who is in love with the blue boy too. the blue boy is always hanging out with the blonde bitch, and the blue boy is in love with Cry baby and the blonde bitch is kinda mean to Cry baby every time she wants to hang out with the blue boy. and when the blue boy and Cry baby is about to kiss the blonde bitch won over the blue boy by showing her boobs, and he broke Cry baby's heart because he went with the blonde bitch instead.


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    Dec 21st, 2017 12:02am report

    What I think (my opinion) is that it's a cheating scenario where blue boy cheats on cry baby with girl but cry baby still loves blue boy but blue boy doesn't love her any more and is using her for his own sexual needs but girl wins blue boy over and they leave cry baby in the pen crying as cry baby does with all of her problems.


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    Nov 10th, 2017 11:14pm report

    Two girls fight over their favorite thing in the world: a boy. Blondie wins the war.

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